December 2003 – January 2004 Grapevine

FOR ALL

 

What illnesses do overloaded Christmas trees get?

Tinselitis!

 

Dear Friends,

 

A teacher in an infant school was talking to her young class about Christmas. “Can anyone name two of Santa’s reindeer”, she asked.

At once a little boy shot his hand up. “Rudolf and Olive”, he announced.

“Well I’ve heard of Rudolf, but I don’t think there is an Olive”.

“Yes there is”, said the little boy confidently, “it’s in the song” and he proceeded to

sing -

“Rudolf the red nosed reindeer

                                          Had a very shine nose.

                                          And if you ever saw it,

                                          You would even say it glowed.

                                          Olive the other reindeer….”

 

But it’s not only this little boy who is confused about the details of Christmas. A lot of people are today. And is it any wonder when the real meaning of Christmas is increasingly ignored. I heard of a charity that has consciously banned any religious scenes from its greetings cards this year. And where the shops are full of Chubby images of Santa Claus and snowflakes, there is not a nativity scene to be found.

 

Of course all of this is only to be expected as it reflects the decreasing influence and importance Christianity has in people’s lives. But I would prefer Christmas to be moved to another date than to see this gradual commercial high jack of one of the most beautiful and important festivals in our year.

 

Not that I don’t enjoy a mid winter celebration and to receiving presents just like anyone else, because I do (members of my family please note). But not at the price of losing out on the greatest gift of all. The gift of Jesus Christ, Emmanuel (God with us).

 

This is a gift far too important to be lost among the scenes of Robins on Christmas cards and images of Santa Claus.

 

It may be Xmas, but it certainly isn’t Christmas.

 

Let’s put Jesus back where he belongs, at the centre of our celebrations this year. And on behalf of my family and myself, may you have a very merry CHRISTMAS and a happy New Year.

Geoff Boxer                            

 

Where do snowmen put their web pages?

On the winternet


Church Flowers

Thanks to all members who donate flowers for December and January.

The flower rota will be put up at the end of December. Please put your name on the list.

Ron

Prayers

Bert who will be spending his Christmas in a nursing home, being still very poorly.

Ivy Blogg, also ill. Margaret, being well cared for by the wonderful Yorktey House staff. Young Emily Powell, still in hospital and mourning her mother, and her six-year old brother Jack and stepfather. The parents of the Soham girls with their courtroom ordeal. Also for all old or lonely people spending Christmas alone - and all those with troubles.

 

The collection for the Methodist Homes was £14. Thanks to all who gave.

 

After six years doing a wonderful job, Vat has to give up as secretary and treasurer. On behalf of everyone, “Thank You for all you have done”. Ray Clay has taken over as secretary and Ron Love as treasurer.

 

Again this year, it would be nice if everyone gave a donation to the bemeiza House children’s hospice instead of giving Christmas cards. I will give everyone an envelope nearer the time.

Ron

 

What beats his chest and swings from Christmas cake to Christmas cake? Tarzipan!

 

Can I have a broken drum for Christmas?

The best thing you could have asked

for. You can’t beat it!

 

bear Father Christmas, could you please send me a musical instrument. Thank you, Yours, A. Fisherman Father Christmas: That’s easy, we’ll send him a cast-a-net.

 

Man: That train set looks fantastic. I’ll take one. Assistant: I’m sure your son will love it, Sir!

Man: (sighs) Oh, yes    I suppose he would. You’d better give me two, then.

 

‘Father Christmas has two reindeer. He calls one Edward and the other one Edward! I bet you can’t tell me why he does that!’ ‘Oh, yes I can.’ The elf said. ‘Because two Eds are better than one, of course!’

 

What did the big candle say to the little candle?

I’m going out tonight!

 

What do Eskimos use to hold their homes together?

Ig-”glue”!

What do elves sing to Santa?

Freeze a Jolly Good Fellow!


Walk for the Homeless

Hazel and Eddie would like to thank all who sponsored them on the walk for the Homeless in October. They raised £141.92 between them.

 

What do snowmen do in cold weather?

Sit round a candle.

 

What do they do in very cold weather?

Light it!!

 

WHAT IS CHRISTMAS ABOUT?

Can you see beyond the tinsel and fairy lights?

Can you see beyond the cost and not the fight?

Can you see more then the wreath upon the door?

Can you see more the brightly lit Santa’s galore?

 

Is Christmas about cost and what we have lost?     

Is it about the light dusting of frost?

Is Christmas about food and a midwinter celebration?

Is it not about our Saviours creation?

 

Is it the food and games that make it special? Is it the decorations and brightly coloured wrapping paper?

Is it the Christmas cake and Christmas pudding?

 

No to see what for,

We must look beyond the stable door.

 

 

Please pray for those of our church who are unwell. For our elderly friends who are finding it increasingly difficult to get to church.

For Cath Wells who has been unwell with bronchitis Ron Thomas not eating again and losing too much weigh For Bob Wood back from having his eye operation For Margaret Dudley who is now back from her holiday. That she is refreshed and recharged, giving her the strength to cope with the problems before her.

For Cherry Buckhannon our new Pastoral Secretary that God will be with her in the apartment, and for Eileen Lowery who has retired from the post we give thanks for all the work she has done.

Let us all pray, as we draw near to Christmas, a family time for all those who will be alone, for world peace, and for all in need the whole world over.

That Gods Love and Peace will fill his troubled world as we celebrate the birthday of Jesus Christ the Son of God this Christmas time and always.

 

 

 

International Needs Presents

live & connected"

by

Graham Hepburn and Akin Mullery Thursday 4~’ December, 8pm

in

 

The Main Hall

Christ Church University

North Holmes Road

Canterbury

 

An evening of

Wit, Wisdom, Christian

Witness and Live Music

 

Information 020 8688 3939

inuk@inter-nationalneeds.com

 

A Course for Elders and those considering a call to Eldership (incorporating Local Leadership)

5 Saturdays from  17TH January 1Oam to 3.3Opm (with lunch)

Scriptural roots, Ecumenical aspects, pastoral roles, teamwork, effective communication, the wider church, the community and youth and children’s

work - contact Des Colechin

 

Borrowed Joy

Let’s borrow from our memories

When times ore sad & trying

Let’s find a little laughter

When we’re very near to crying

 

Secure in loving thought

Of happy friends arid distant places

Knowing future days will hold

Good times and merry faces

 

Thursday 11th  December Human Rights bay

www.oneworld.org/una_uk

 

Festival of Hope 2004

As well as the United Margate Churches Service, the Festival Finale (probably now to be in one of the parks) and the ‘On the Move’ barbecue event, Union Church is considering a day of board games - Scrabble, ludo, Rummikub etc followed by taking such games into various homes where the residents have a common room. It is also planned to join in the Monston Flower Festival. Other thoughts are a barn dance and youth and young children’s events (so that parents can get away to enjoy other activities!).

Any volunteers?

Any other ideas?

 

Let’s really serve the local community for at least this week!!

 

 

What did the big cracker say to the little cracker?

My pop is bigger than yours!

    Did Rudolph go to a regular school?     No, he Wa.. .s elf-taught!

How long should a reindeer’s legs be?

Just long enough to reach the ground

How does Rudolph know when Christmas is coming?

He looks at his calen-”deer”!

What did Adam say on the day before Christmas? It’s Christmas, Eve

What do you have in December that you don’t have in any other month ?

The letter “D”

Why does Father Christmas go down the chimney? Because it soots him !

How many chimneys does Father Christmas go down? Stacks I

 

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Dear Father Christmas, this Christmas could you please send me a yellow door.

Yours, Sherlock Holmes

Watson:               So why do you want a yellow door, Holmes?

Holmes:              Lemon-entry my dear Watson.

If there were 1.1 elves, and another one came along, what would he be?

 

The twelf

 

A Christmas thought:    STRESSED is just DESSERTS spelled backward.

 

What comes at the end of Christmas Day? The letter “Y”!

 

What do monkeys sing at Christmas? Jungle Bells, Jungle bells..

 

How do you describe a rich elf? Welfy

 

And as the reindeer say before they tell you jokes ....These jokes will sleigh you!

 

How do you make a slow reindeer fast? Don’t feed it!

 

Dear Father Christmas, could you please send me some Crocodile shoes!. Father Christmas: Can’t do that. He hasn’t said what size his crocodile takes!

 

For All

Sewing Together

Mariyama and her dad struggled with the heavy burden along the dust covered, pot-holed and unsurfaced road for three miles to their village.

Unlike many, she was able to start school at 7, but it meant a three mile walk to the only school in the area. She was one of the few Gambian children to receive further education beyond the age of 13 when compulsory education finishes and has completed three years vocational training (including a course in needlework and designing clothes). In common with many Gambians she has a flair for art and crafts but can now use both talent and learnt skills to make and sell clothes to help the family income. There is a scarcity in Gambia of people trained in basic trades -the resourcing of education has a long way to go.

Mariyama had passed an examination to gain her additional education but the cost could never had been met by her parents - expenses were covered by local missionaries and their agents with help from Edaid.

Her father scratches a living on a farm in rural Gambia which has suffered from extremes in weather conditions. Nothing is certain about provision for the next meal. He would never have been able to afford the contents of the box they struggled with. Her mother often makes the 4 mile round trip for water to the nearest well. There are four other children in the family.

World-wide economy is affecting Gambia’s finances and its ability to purchase fuel and electricity from other countries. Inflation is so high that for the first time for some years, people are suffering the pains of real hunger.

Missionary groups and organisations such as Edaid (Education Aid for Africa) endeavour to provide educational resources but despite all their efforts during the last 13 years, only the tip of the iceberg has been reached.

Edaid is a group from various catholic churches in England with its head office in Cliftonville manned by Ron Rolf and his wife. For 13 years they have collected tools, educational resources, hand-operated sewing machines and as much funds as possible. Shipments go once or twice a year, quite often accompanied so that Edaid can be aware of the needs - and to assist with the distribution.

By now you may have gathered that Mariyarna and her father were struggling with a sewing machine - possibly one of the 18 or so collected by responses from Union Church. These were gratefully received through Edaid as shown by beaming smiles on the 18 faces in Gambia. The recipients can now make an economic contribution to their family and village.

An Edaid video on Gambia is available on loan to groups. "Sewing together” has helped address resourcing of education in Gambia. Further sewing machines, tools, pencils, paper etc will always be required - thank you.

Douglas and Moira Bush

 

Union Church

Fair-trade

The United Reformed Church is committed to supporting and encouraging the use of Fair-trade products in all our churches and to establish Fair-trade churches, towns, cities, and Synods. Relevant Commitment for Life information can be got from 81, Tavistock Place or a local Fair-trade representative.

 

To be a Fair-trade Church, a church agrees I) to use Fair-trade tea and coffee for all its meetings ii) to move towards using other Fair-trade products (eg sugar, biscuits, fruit and iii) to promote Fairtrade Fortnight and other activities whenever possible.

 

“Speak zip for people who cannot speak for themselves. Protect the rights of all who are helpless. 5peok for them and be a righteous judge. Protect the rights of the poor and needy”          Proverbs 3 1:8-9

 

The URC Commitment for Life website has detail on international trade issues and the Trade Justice Movement.

 

Members are encouraged to write to their MP, The Secretary of State for Trade and Industry, The Secretary of State for International Development, The Chancellor of the Exchequer and the Minister for Trade to urge the government to

i) renew efforts to achieve the Millennium development Goals in full and on time

ii) renew its commitment to debt relief

iii) note the anger of developing countries at being required to open their markets to subsidised produce from rich countries and other unfair competition.

 

What do vampires put on their turkey at Christmas/

Grave-y!

 

Whats the best thing to put into a Christmas cake?

Your teeth !

 

My bear Friends

Finally, I have stopped long enough to send you greetings from far-flung Queenborough. Everything has been so hectic the past weeks. I have felt like a logger being carried downstream with not a lot of control over anything. However, I am now staying with my son in Queenborough for the next three weeks. I cannot in all honesty say it is a beautiful place but it is different. I believe the river and the sea merge somewhere here. It is not warm but it is good to see children and young folk well wrapped up and walking everywhere. This is what I call ‘doing” a place. We live almost on the shore, so it is nothing to see boats being pushed along the road on wheels - going for repair I would guess.

We went in a car along one road the other day and it had large signs saying “BEWARE

OF THE WILDLIFEM and indeed there was plenty of it: grouse, geese, hare etc. I just loved it.

The roads are certainly not the best I have been in on my buggy but nonetheless I am sure I will very soon get to know where the best spots are for crossing the roads. The buggy flags encourage people to talk to me, so I am really enjoying the restful break before I start again making the move to Worthing.

Now for my main reason for writing: to thank you one and all for your cards wishing me every happiness in my new home. Your messages were so caring and loving. They meant so much to me - even the one I had to run round in circles to read (see Pam). And what can I say about my beautiful gifts. My aerial pictures of Margate shall certainly have a very prominent place in the new home. Can you imagine the talking point they will be. And my wonderful paints and easel -what a swank I will be when I go on my painting weekend at the end of November. I shall so enjoy using them. My thanks to one and all once again.

Sadly, I have not found a URC or Methodist church near at hand, yet there is a Church of England right next door whose clock chimes on the hour every hour - day and night. So it is not favorite at the moment.

I shall be thinking of you on bazaar day. I do hope you have a really good day. It takes a lot of getting used to after 37 years not to be part of it.

Every blessing to you all Emily Baynes

 

Can I have a wombat for Christmas?

   What would you do with a wombat?

Play wom, of course!!

 

Noah’s Ark Bazaar

THANK YOU to everyone who made our Bazaar such a happy and successful day. It was good to have so many visitors with us and in particular Jean and Martin Quick sharing the day with us on their first visit to Union Church.

 

So many people were involved from the preparation stage through to the end that I would fill the whole magazine by naming them all. Please accept this as my personal thanks to you all for your hard work before and on the day....and of course for the many prayerful thoughts for the success of our Bazaar.

 

The total at the time of submitting this to the Editor is £1,127.55 - but as we all know, .any-thing printed is out of date by the time it is read. There are still a few amounts expected....so with a few prayers we may get a little closer to my optimistic figure of £2,000.

Anita Rourk

Our annual Bazaar proved to be a very successful and happy event. Everyone entered into the spirit of the occasion. The stalls represented an animal from the Ark and were decorated accordingly. The fancy-dress competition was well supported (except for the adult class !!). Father Christmas in his delightful Grotto was a great attraction and the new kitchen came into its own. Appetising snacks were served to many of the public. All-in-all a most satisfactory Bazaar and to all who helped in any way - selling or buying.

Joan Corbey

 

After our Harvest weekend, I went to deliver a parcel to Rene King. She was so pleased she was reduced to tears and asked me to convey her thanks to everyone.

I then went on to visit Irene Harris. She was so thrilled and could not believe that we remembered her enough to send a harvest gift.

Later, I met Margery Moon and she said how good it was to receive the harvest box from us.

In each case, I don’t think it was necessarily the harvest gift but the fact that we cared enough to think of them and bothered to visit them even though none of them are able to come to church now.

Sylvia Lamb

 

 

What did the Eskimos sing when they got their Christmas dinner?

“Whale meat again, don’t know where, don’t know when” !

 

We would like to thank all family and friends for their best wishes for us in our new home. It has been a most harrowing and upsetting time for us over the past months. As for myself, I don’t know what I would have done without the love and support given to us by the church family. So at this time of the year, I would like to wish you all "Glad Tidings of Great Joy”. May God bless you all and the love of Jesus Christ be with us all. Blessed be love.

Debbie Baynes and Family

 

 

Debbie and Freddie

wish you all

A Very Merry Christmas

and

A Happy New Year

 

 

 

Jeff and I would to thank everyone for their prayers, get-well cards and the flowers. The new knee will take time to get used to but he is persevering. Thank You.

Betty Coleman

 

Thank you very much to Moira and Douglas Bush who took port in the Friends of East Kent Churches Sponsored Cycle Ride ­raising the sum of £130 (of which half will be returned to our church). Well done both of you.

 

To all our friends at Union Church

We are looking forward to our first Christmas here in New Zealand, it certainly won’t be what we are used to, instead there will be lovely weather, trips to the beach, and an alternative menu (though I will introduce some traditional dishes into it!). The seven of us will spend Christmas Eve and Christmas bay together, then we are off down to Gary’s parents in Reefton on the South Island for New Year celebrations. On the 3rd January we are having a Marriage blessing at their Church so Gary’s family will be involved, his Sister will also be traveling down for the occasion

So there is lots to look forward to. However, we shall miss our family in England and our thoughts will be with them at Christmas as always.

We hope you all have an enjoyable Christmas, we shall be thinking of you.

Much love and may God bless you all.

Philippa, Gary, Chelsea, Charlie, Nick, Tina and Jon Lawn

 

Controlling the Weapons Trade to Save Lives

 

The world is awash with weapons there are 639 Million small arms in the world or one for every ten people.

Half a million people die as a result of armed violence every year, that is one every minute and equivalent to the population of a city the size of Bristol.

 

In addition to this massive toll in lost lives, the weapons trade is a barrier to countries escaping from poverty. One in three countries spend more on their military than they do on health care services.

 

With the value of global authorised arms exports estimated at $23 billion per year, the UK and other arms exporters are making huge amounts of money out of this deadly trade. Yet the governments of arms exporting countries deny accountability for the death and suffering caused by the trade. They point the finger of blame at illegal users, although it is estimated that 80 90% of all illegal small arms are originally manufactured and traded legally in the state-sanctioned trade. Consequently, it is the governments who authorise the export or re— export of weapons who must bring this trade under control.

 

Oxfam, Amnesty International and International Action on Small Arms have recently launched a joint campaign calling for an international arms trade treaty to bring the supply and use of conventional weapons under tight regulation.

 

To bring pressure to bear on the governments who would have to agree such a treaty, the campaign aims to use its internet site to build a “Million Faces’ petition.

 

If you log on to www.controlarms.org, you can be part of the petition by either uploading a photo of yourself, selecting a picture to represent you from an on-line gallery or drawing a computer picture of yourself.

 

Without internationally agreed action, it is unlikely the death and misery resulting from the global weapons trade will be curbed and we can support that call to “Control Arms”.

 

 

Social Responsibility Secretary 24